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Balancing Babies, Business, and Burnout: How Moms Can Thrive in Remote Work Without Losing Themselves

Balancing Babies, Business, and Burnout: How Moms Can Thrive in Remote Work Without Losing Themselves
Moms Can Thrive in Remote Work Without Losing Themselves

You love your family, but you also want more. More income, more purpose, more personal growth. Yet between feeding a baby, school runs, laundry, and exhaustion, you silently wonder: “Can I really work from home and still be a good mom?” This question has also lingered in my heart at some point in my life, and the answer is……..
Yes, you can. But it requires structure, not perfection.

What you need to do first is Redefine Balance.

Balance doesn’t mean giving 100% to everything at the same time, or looking like you have your life together and sitting pretty. It means knowing what matters most in the moment.
Some days, motherhood wins; other days, ambition wins, and that’s okay. Balance is giving to what demands the most per time and not tearing yourself apart in different directions to give every part a bit of you.

Then you need to create a Flexible Routine, not a Strict Schedule.

Use time blocks instead of hour-by-hour perfection plans. For example:

  • Morning (Before Kids Wake up): Prayer, planning, ensuring you are not behind deadlines for the day, workouts, fixing up the living room, meetings, or 25 minutes of focused work.
  • Afternoon: Naps or quiet play = reply to emails or schedule posts, cooking lunch, fixing up rooms, and ensuring tasks for the day are in progress.
  • Night: 1–2 hours of learning or client work when the house is quiet, attending to the kids, husband, and getting set for the next day.

Remember to also ask for Help, Without Guilt.

Support isn’t weakness. It’s wisdom. We mums feel we can do everything because we think our way is better. No one can do everything by themselves, and delegating or asking for help is a sign of high productivity and efficiency. I remember the time I was working two jobs, managing my home with 3 children, attending to my Church responsibilities and had no domestic staff or nanny but the help of my husband when he was free from work as well. He advised us to get a domestic staff, and this was one of the best decisions ever.

  • Let your spouse, sibling, friend, or even older child help before a domestic staff or nanny comes.
  • If possible, pay someone to handle chores so you can focus on tasks that earn.

Finally; Don’t Forget Yourself

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We women have a natural tendency to cater to and for others and forget ourselves. You can’t pour from an empty cup. Take 15 minutes daily just for you: journaling, reading, skincare, worship, something that reminds you you’re more than a mom.

Questions I need you to answer;

  • What small pocket of time today can I use to grow?
  • Where do I need to ask for help instead of struggling alone?

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